Comments on: The Aftermath http://www.anindiansummer.net/2008/06/28/the-aftermath/ Blogging, Girly Crap, Chairty and More! Fri, 05 Dec 2008 00:56:45 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 By: Bunny http://www.anindiansummer.net/2008/06/28/the-aftermath/#comment-26699 Bunny Wed, 09 Jul 2008 05:58:47 +0000 http://www.anindiansummer.net/2008/06/28/the-aftermath/#comment-26699 I've tried typing something a million times but find that it's hard to say what I'm really feeling in the right words. Just know that you're still in my thoughts and I'm sending love your way. ...and *HUGS* I’ve tried typing something a million times but find that it’s hard to say what I’m really feeling in the right words. Just know that you’re still in my thoughts and I’m sending love your way.

…and *HUGS*

]]> By: WebKittyn http://www.anindiansummer.net/2008/06/28/the-aftermath/#comment-26697 WebKittyn Mon, 30 Jun 2008 16:10:34 +0000 http://www.anindiansummer.net/2008/06/28/the-aftermath/#comment-26697 Bug- You are a one of a kind person who does indeed manage to touch the lives of the people you interact with. You've touched my life and my soul and I am grateful that I've come to know you. Continue to take care of yourself. Let time work it's mojo and the days will become less painful. I wish with all my heart there was something I could do other than repeat cliches of comfort. I've started collecting from the station people to donate to your brother's memorial fund, we're over a hundred already. Just a (very) small gesture I can do to help out. My number here is 845 758 9130 if you ever want to talk but if not just know you are loved and thought about. Bug-

You are a one of a kind person who does indeed manage to touch the lives of the people you interact with. You’ve touched my life and my soul and I am grateful that I’ve come to know you.

Continue to take care of yourself. Let time work it’s mojo and the days will become less painful. I wish with all my heart there was something I could do other than repeat cliches of comfort.

I’ve started collecting from the station people to donate to your brother’s memorial fund, we’re over a hundred already. Just a (very) small gesture I can do to help out.

My number here is 845 758 9130 if you ever want to talk but if not just know you are loved and thought about.

]]> By: Momma Bug http://www.anindiansummer.net/2008/06/28/the-aftermath/#comment-26696 Momma Bug Mon, 30 Jun 2008 04:26:03 +0000 http://www.anindiansummer.net/2008/06/28/the-aftermath/#comment-26696 Bug, Well said--I, too, am feeling the loss of an important part of me. I do understand the conflict---I understand the logical reasons behind Sebastien's death, and I understand the spiritual reasons. Despite that, the pain is still there. Be good to yourself. Take it slow. The answer for you will be revealed. I love you. I am here for you. Love Mom Bug,
Well said–I, too, am feeling the loss of an important part of me.

I do understand the conflict—I understand the logical reasons behind Sebastien’s death, and I understand the spiritual reasons. Despite that, the pain is still there. Be good to yourself. Take it slow. The answer for you will be revealed.

I love you. I am here for you.

Love
Mom

]]> By: AmyD http://www.anindiansummer.net/2008/06/28/the-aftermath/#comment-26695 AmyD Sun, 29 Jun 2008 23:19:34 +0000 http://www.anindiansummer.net/2008/06/28/the-aftermath/#comment-26695 Sweetheart, this is not the end and I have no doubt that your brother is with you still. You can't be as close as you two obviously were and him not want to reach out and help you however he can to deal with his loss. I believe that and I hope it somewhat comforts you even if you don't. You have been in my thoughts a lot lately and I am so glad you updated to let everyone know that you working through this. Much love to you. Sweetheart, this is not the end and I have no doubt that your brother is with you still. You can’t be as close as you two obviously were and him not want to reach out and help you however he can to deal with his loss. I believe that and I hope it somewhat comforts you even if you don’t.

You have been in my thoughts a lot lately and I am so glad you updated to let everyone know that you working through this.

Much love to you.

]]> By: absent.canadian http://www.anindiansummer.net/2008/06/28/the-aftermath/#comment-26694 absent.canadian Sun, 29 Jun 2008 12:13:30 +0000 http://www.anindiansummer.net/2008/06/28/the-aftermath/#comment-26694 Well said, Bug - there's not "right" or "wrong" way to work through something like this, and whatever answers you come up with for the "big" questions you're asking will be right for you. All the best in the coming days, weeks and months. It won't be easy, but you'll get through it. It's what your brother would have wanted. Well said, Bug - there’s not “right” or “wrong” way to work through something like this, and whatever answers you come up with for the “big” questions you’re asking will be right for you.

All the best in the coming days, weeks and months. It won’t be easy, but you’ll get through it. It’s what your brother would have wanted.

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